Where is my happiness? 
 

[Talk] benefits such as 27-year-old female [Time] February 13 [the way] QQ 
The □ Oriental Today newspaper reporter the ZHOU 
 
 
Love, to Danru Whitewater 
My husband and I were dear to know. 2004 Spring Festival, we met once or twice in his hometown after the set the match after two of their own work in the field. Understanding of the first year we almost did not how to contact. The second year of the New Year that a few days, nothing to his parents go out into my home run, drives got married. My excuse was little to push. The third year is also the case during the Spring Festival, his parents' day trip to my home run, to discuss the matter of marriage and my family. He was very filial piety, and I am to obey their parents, then we put the marriage do. 
Can say that they first got married, my husband and I no feelings, the first year, he also said he was not good for me. Marry him, I also recognize that life, think of a good live with him. The people are the meat, I told him, he has gradually hygiene conditions, at least we get used to each other. Marriage relationship of the second year we have improved a lot also harmonious coexistence. For example, newlywed, he will do everything not to think of me, but then a long time, told me that when he went out cry, and sometimes took me to the party he and his friends. 
Looking back, we got married 6 years, more or less the feelings, if you have kids, I think we will not be referred to this point where 
In 2007, I did not feel uncomfortable, in a nearby clinic treatment, do not mend. 2008 her husband took me to the Zhengzhou hospital for tests, the doctor said that tuberculous pleurisy needs an operation, should prepare at least 30,000 yuan of money, adding that this disease may affect fertility. At that time her husband heard, got nothing to say, just say the first cure. 
Husband and I married,mbt baratos, I have not control over how money, to think anyway, are a people, who control the money does not matter. The first few years, the husband for me is also good, he took the money, if I want, he gives, this time I was sick the surgery, he also said nothing to put the money taken out. I am very touched, really thinking about the cure, he had had a good life. Who knows, the disease is then cured, but it left a lot of after-effects. 
I treat spent a total of forty or fifty thousand. His parents brought $ 5000, my parents out of $ 5,000, before we do business to save some money, the ED also borrowed from a friend a point to be considered lobbied for the cost of treatment. Later, the rural cooperative medical claims over 10,000, I want to come up with my parents were paying the money, the meaning of the husband is the money my parents gave me a doctor should. Indeed should, can my family condition is very bad, and the younger brother was still at school, parents out of money, part of my younger brother to school fees. The husband does not agree to take the money to my parents, I was hurt. Two of naughty a long Haoshuodaishuo the the he was not reluctant to $ 2,000. 
Child, marriage reef 
Been pregnant on the child, in 2010, to the hospital for a laparoscopy combined spent over 10,nike,000 yuan reimbursed more than 2000 yuan. I took out 1000 yuan to my parents know the husband was very angry, saying that not allow me to stick the money. Money from home has always been he took, I never said nothing, whatever how to use, but why I returned to the parents die, your parents why should not you? 
Speaking of children, I was even more uncomfortable. Been pregnant on the child, her husband and his family more and more indifferent attitude towards me, always seem to restrict my, my husband and I often angry, because a little small quarrel. 
I know, no children at home is not, always wanted to approach pregnancy. I heard that you can do a test-tube baby, told her husband to discuss, he was unwilling, mainly suspected of spending too much. Later her husband to give my dad call my dad loans to IVF. What he means is that successful, the money to also half of the unsuccessful, the money we were one person. He knows my family was poor, but also it forced me and my family, the moment he let me cool to the feet, heart. 
That our quarrel heavily, and almost broke up. The reason I broke up, did not say divorce is because we had to do a fake marriage certificate, which I later learned. At that time, we go according to phase, he also took back the red book, covered with a chapter. His original work item welfare, marriage will benefit employees,polo ralph lauren, he'll get, the company also gave. I assume that that marriage certificate is true. Later, I can not remember what time and referred to the marriage license, he told me the marriage certificate is fake, online finding out, because the marriage of his age not to want to collar the subsidy, so to do a fake. One is fake, wanted to go through a really, can the husband always said that with children, with a variety of procedures to do. Now developed to such cases - no children wandering in the marriage the edge, I think he certainly even more reluctant to replace it with my marriage certificate.